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Confidence Builder

The heart of the app. Built around Cognitive Pragmatic Training, Confidence Builder teaches the thinking habits and practical skills confident speakers rely on, then gives you a small real-life challenge after every lesson.

Daily challenges
Why it matters

Confidence is a skill, not a personality type

Confident people are not born without nerves. They have simply learned what to do with them. They talk to themselves fairly, recover quickly from awkward moments and notice their own progress. Every one of those habits can be learned, practised and made your own.

Course 1

Confidence Levels

The main course. Cognitive Pragmatic Training, level by level, from the foundations to leading with confidence.

What is inside
  1. Foundations: getting ready to speak and building your confidence
  2. Everyday situations: conversations, groups, the phone, work and dating
  3. Bigger moments: public speaking, presentations, interviews and difficult conversations
  4. Leading: speaking to a team, negotiating and persuading
  5. More levels are on the way
Course 2

Calming Your Nerves

Understand your nerves and settle them before you speak.

5 sessions
  1. Understanding Your Nerves
  2. Slow Breathing to Settle
  3. Grounding and Releasing Tension
  4. Reframing Nerves as Energy
  5. Your Pre-Speaking Calm Routine
Course 3

Positive Self-Talk

Turn your inner critic into an inner coach.

5 sessions
  1. Noticing Your Inner Voice
  2. The Inner Coach and the Inner Critic
  3. Reframing into Balanced Thoughts
  4. Confident Statements Aloud
  5. A Daily Self-Talk Habit
Course 4

The Confidence Ladder

Face the situations you avoid, one small step at a time.

5 sessions
  1. Why Avoidance Keeps Fear Going
  2. Building Your Ladder
  3. Taking the First Rungs
  4. Climbing Higher
  5. Keeping Climbing
Course 5

Assertiveness and Saying No

Ask for what you want, set kind boundaries and stop over-apologising.

5 sessions
  1. What Assertiveness Really Is
  2. Saying No Kindly and Clearly
  3. Asking for What You Want
  4. Fewer Apologies, Clearer Words
  5. Holding Your Ground Calmly
Course 6

Beating Imposter Syndrome

Feel you belong and own your achievements.

5 sessions
  1. Understanding Imposter Feelings
  2. Your Evidence File
  3. Owning Your Wins
  4. Perfectionism and Comparison
  5. Speaking with Authority
Course 7

Handling Rejection

Take a no calmly, without taking it personally, and try again.

5 sessions
  1. Why Rejection Stings
  2. Not Taking It Personally
  3. Responding with Grace
  4. Learning from a No
  5. Trying Again
Course 8

Building Resilience

Bounce back calmly and keep your confidence growing.

5 sessions
  1. Bouncing Back
  2. Mistakes as Learning
  3. When You Lose Your Place
  4. Tough Questions and Criticism
  5. Keeping Momentum
Course 9

Everyday Gratitude

Notice the good, say thank you warmly and grow a positive outlook.

5 sessions
  1. Noticing the Good
  2. A Daily Gratitude Habit
  3. Thanking People Out Loud
  4. Appreciating Your Progress
  5. Ending the Day Well
How it feels

From the app into real life

A challenge every day

After each lesson you get a small, real-world challenge, on the phone, at work or out with friends. Mix them up and pick the ones that suit your day.

Debrief with Ascend

Come back and tell Ascend how it went. She asks thoughtful questions, scores your attempt out of ten and suggests what to practise next.

Never learn a script

Repeat any module as often as you like. The scenarios change each time, so you build real confidence rather than memorising lines.

Ready to find your voice?

Download the app today on iPhone and Android, and start training with Ascend.